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About Oasis

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Oasis is the only
drop-in and support
center dedicated to the needs of GLBTQ youth ages 14-24 in Pierce
County and is operated as a program of the Pierce County AIDS
Foundation.
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Mission
Oasis strives to enhance and sustain
the health and well-being of Gay,
Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Questioning (GLBTQ) youth by
providing activities, programs and services that:
- Support and empower youth
- Create healthy community
- Provide essential resources
- Promote cultural diversity
- Advocate for civil rights
Oasis is committed to providing a safe, affirming space for GLBTQ youth
to be proud of who they are and the encouragement they need to become
healthy, productive and fully participating citizens.
Supported by a team of dozens of staff and volunteers, Oasis offers an
amazing array of activities to more than 300 youth annually.
History
Oasis was formed in 1988 by a
group of concerned citizens to help GLBTQ youth cope with
discrimination and find support. Oasis is celebrating over 20 years of history and we are currently compiling an Oasis History Project to
document the many great achievements and milestones witnessed over the
years. If you have an Oasis story to share, please contact
us. More than 3,000 youth, staff and volunteers have participated
in the program since 1988 and we would like to hear from as many of you
as possible.
Programs
and Services
- 18+ drop-in hours per week with trained adult staff
and volunteers
- Support for youth around issues of sexual
orientation and gender identity
- Crisis intervention
and advocacy services for GLBTQ
victims of crime
If you or someone you know has been
victim of crime, Oasis has a
program that can help you. The VOC Program provides support,
advocacy, services and referrals for GLBTQ youth victims of crime
including:
- 24 hour crisis line
- Crisis intervention
- Safety planning
- Mental Health counseling
- Navigation of legal and medical systems
- Information, education and referral
- Skills building
- General case management
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Leadership training through Oasis
Youth Council
The youth leadership group at Oasis is
made up of interested youth
members of Oasis who have completed peer leader training. OYC
members direct important aspects of the program including developing
and adapting the community agreements to fit the needs of the group,
planning events and fundraising activities, providing advocacy and
outreach in the community and helping to set the strategic goals of the
program.
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Community outreach and advocacy
The Oasis Monologues is a performing
arts program created to raise
awareness about various issues facing gay, lesbian, bisexual,
transgender, and questioning youth. The Monologues uses creative
media, specifically theater and spoken word as an educational and
outreach tool to address such topics as coming out, gender identity,
HIV prevention, safe sex, and sexual orientation. Oasis also offers a
Speakers Bureau of youth who attend local classrooms and community
groups to speak about being a young GLBTQ person in today's society.
- Referrals to culturally competent primary care,
mental health and social service providers
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Free confidential HIV testing and counseling,
including rapid testing
HIV positive youth or youth at risk of
becoming positive work with a
prevention counselor to create individual goals to reduce their risk of
getting or transmitting the HIV virus. Youth can participate in
up to 5 sessions and are eligible to receive an incentive. Youth
who are interested in participating in AIM must schedule an appointment
with the Prevention Counselor.
- Resources, support and counseling for HIV+ youth
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Comprehensive HIV
prevention program for young gay and bisexual men
Passport is a five part HIV prevention
program designed to give GLBTQ
youth the information and skills they need to help prevent HIV.
Youth in the program visit five themed destinations, receiving a stamp
in their Passport book for each destination. The more workshops that
youth attend the better the incentives get.
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Queers Kick Ash:
innovative GLBTQ youth-focused tobacco cessation program
Queers Kick Ash is an innovative
smoking cessation program designed
specifically for GLBTQ youth. The program is peer led and
focuses on many aspects of why young people smoke, how the media
affects those decisions, strategies for quitting or reducing smoking
and support for individuals who are trying to quit. Queers Kick Ash
offers youth the ability to enhance their leadership skills while
supporting and encouraging their peers. With the GLBTQ community
smoking at twice the rate of the straight community, this program
remains a vital part of the Oasis program.
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Sexual assault prevention program with the OPEN! group
The O.P.E.N! group (Oasis Prevention & Education Now!) is a
committed group of Oasis youth who are
educating themselves and their peers about sexual assault
prevention. OPEN! combines media literacy, critical
thinking, and peer advocacy to examine sexual assault in the GLBTQ
community and create a community whose members enjoy healthy
relationships, high self esteem, and improved communication skills.
- Youth-led discussions and workshops
- Recreational space, games, crafts, art, music,
retreats and so much more!
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Oasis
Staff
Seth Kirby
Seth Kirby has his dream job as the Director of Oasis. Back in 2001, he started working drop-in shifts at Oasis as part of the HIV prevention department at the Pierce County AIDS Foundation. Eventually, he became the Oasis Program Coordinator. He left Oasis in 2006 to work in state government. After three years away, he is thrilled to be back with Oasis! Seth holds an MPA from The Evergreen State College and is originally from the Midwest. Seth's interests include: hiking and other outdoor pursuits; graphic novels and other good books; vintage country music; and playing frisbee with his dog.
Email: sethkirby@piercecountyaids.org
Mo Lewis
Mo is a Youth Advocate at Oasis and coordinates O.P.E.N! (Oasis Prevention & Education Now!,) a sexual assault prevention program at Oasis. Currently Mo is working with the Rainbow Center to help launch a new group for GLBTQ 20-somethings in Tacoma called QSpot. Mo is a former Oasis youth, a UWT graduate, enjoys bike riding, rocket
building, home improvement projects, and is silly on the outside and
serious on the inside. Email: molewis@piercecountyaids.org
Tiffany McRae
Tiffany McRae joined the Pierce County AIDS Foundation this June as the new Oasis Youth Advocate. She comes to us with a background in education and politics. She worked in New York City as a high school teacher for a number of years before living and teaching overseas in France, Germany, Taiwan and the Middle East. She is currently completing her Master of Social Work degree at the University of Washington in Tacoma. Her areas of interest include school social work, adolescent /child psychotherapy, GLBTQ youth services, sexual assault/trafficking, and spousal abuse in GLBTQ relationships. For fun, Tiffany enjoys spending time with her son, traveling to exotic destinations, gardening, reading, and writing letters to senators and members of congress about social policy issues.
Email: tmcrae@piercecountyaids.org
Lorenzo Cervantes
Lorenzo Cervantes hails from the Land
of Enchantment, New Mexico, where he/she honed his/her gayness for the
benefit of all humanity. His/Her work began at the age of 19 when
he/she began to volunteer for an unknown but soon to become pivotal HIV
prevention program called Mpower. There he/she recognized that the
world of HIV prevention was lacking people of color representation.
He/she then moved to San Diego, California where he/she worked for the
San Diego LGBTQ Center for their Hillcrest Youth Center. There he/she
started off as a Health Educator for a program for young men who have
sex with men of color. He then was promoted to Program Manager of HIV
Prevention Services. Lorenzo now resides in Tacoma, and works for PCAF
and Oasis as a HIV Prevention Counselor.
Email: lorenzocervantes@piercecountyaids.org
Lori Bundrock
A graduate of the Evergreen State
College, Lori Bundrock is the Prevention Director at the Pierce County
AIDS Foundation where she has worked for more than 11 years. Previously
Lori was the Director of Oasis from 2000 - 2004, but these days she
mostly just stops by to "keep an eye" on things. Lori has always
believed that Oasis is one of the finest collections of human beings on
this whole darn planet. Originally from the wild, untamed mountains of
Montana, Lori longs to live in sunny Kauai where she plans to raise
amazing children and watch thousands of sunsets from the Hanalei pier.
Lori's other interests include: active volcanoes, mid-century modern
design, extension ladder fire trucks, and Oasis Retreats.
Email: loribundrock@piercecountyaids.org
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Frequently Asked Questions
Q. What does Oasis
stand for?
A. Oasis is not an acronym. The name
was chosen by youth to symbolize what the Oasis program is to them.
This program was formerly known by the acronym U.G.L.Y., which stood
for "United Gay and Lesbian Youth."
Q. When is Oasis
open?
A. Oasis is open on Thursdays and
Fridays from 4pm until 10pm, and on Saturdays from 6pm until midnight.
Check out the News page for upcoming events.
Q. Where is Oasis
located?
A. Oasis is centrally located in
Tacoma and is within walking distance to the bus line. Our location is
kept confidential in order to protect the youth at Oasis who are not
out to anyone, and to provide a safe place for GLBTQ youth to be
themselves. Although there are many good arguments to be made about
having a public location, and many centers for GLBTQ youth who do so
successfully, Oasis youth have reported that the program's confidential
location is important to them. In a recent survey of Oasis youth, 78%
of respondents stated that they believe that it is important to keep
the location of Oasis confidential, and of that percentage, 28% said
additionally that they might not attend Oasis if the location was
public.
Q. I am a parent, and
I need to know where my child is going and what kind of supervision is
being provided.
A. That's great! We love to meet
parents who have an interest in what their children are doing. Please
contact Oasis staff to make an appointment with us, and we can
answer your questions about Oasis and give you a tour of our facility
during non drop-in hours.
Q. Can anyone come to
Oasis?
A. Oasis exists for GLBTQ and
questioning people ages 14-24. It is important for young GLBTQ people
to have a place that is just for them, where they can feel safe and
accepted and have access to resources that are specific to this
population. Our funding sources support this model, and youth who
attend Oasis frequently attest to the positive impact having a place
like Oasis makes on their lives. Oasis offers different events each year where straight allies and community members can see what Oasis is all about. If you are
interested, please contact Oasis staff for more information.
Q. What is check-in?
A. Check-in is a Thursday night
tradition at Oasis that has been going on for more than ten years.
During check-in, we sit in a circle in the living room and everyone
says their name, their preferred gender pronoun, how their week has
been, and answers a question that we decide on that night. The question
could be anything from "What are your views on gay marriage?" to "What
is the song that represents your week?" Check-in is one of the best
times to get to know other youth and to hear announcements about what
is going on that week at Oasis.
Q. Why do we say our
gender pronoun during check-in?
A. We say our preferred gender pronoun
in order to let everyone else know if we go by "she", "he", or another
pronoun.
Q. What is the
connection between Oasis and PCAF?
A. Oasis is a program of PCAF. PCAF
stands for Pierce County AIDS Foundation, and the Oasis program is part
of the Prevention Department at PCAF. For more information about PCAF,
please see www.piercecountyaids.org.
Q. Who pays for
Oasis?
A. Oasis is funded by many different
organizations. PCAF provides funding for Oasis, and so does the Tacoma
Pierce County Health Department, United Way, Pride
Foundation, Greater Tacoma Community Foundation, Washington State
Office of Crime Victims Advocacy, and many more valued supporters.
Q. How many people
come to Oasis?
A. In 2008, 300 unduplicated youth
attended Oasis. Of these youth, 45% identified as female, 3% identified
as transgender or genderqueer, and 49% identified as male. Of those
youth, 4% identified as Asian or Pacific Islander, 10% identified
as Black, 2% identified as Native American, 5% identified as
Hispanic or Latino, 24% identified as multiracial, and 57% identified as white. Additionally, 45% of youth served are between the ages of 14-18, and 55% are between the ages of 19-24.
Q. What is a typical
night like at Oasis?
A. There isn't really a "typical"
night at a place like Oasis, but you can generally expect that during
the first two hours Oasis is open, people trickle in from school or
work. This is a good time to talk with staff, do homework, or check
email. A little later on, Oasis is a busy place, with lots of people
hanging out, playing pool, listening to music, eating dinner, or
playing games. If there are any scheduled programs or activities, these
usually take place between 7pm and 9pm, and the expectation is that
everyone who is present will take part in the scheduled activity.
During the last part the evening, it is generally less busy at Oasis,
and people can be found having conversations, playing games,
cleaning, or just relaxing together. If you are interested in finding
out what scheduled activities and events are coming up, please see our
calendar, located on the News page.
Q. What kinds of
resources can I find at Oasis?
A. At Oasis, you can access many kinds
of resources. We have brochures and cards that you can take with you,
and online links on our resources page. Oasis staff offer resources and
information about: HIV testing and counseling, smoking cessation,
depression and mental health, safer sex and STIs, suicide prevention,
sexual assault prevention, coming out issues, legal issues, employment
and housing, family issues and relationships, health care, academic
help, and support around gender identity. Please talk with staff to
find out more about these resources.
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What is Oasis?
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Oasis is a
confidential drop-in and
resource center for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning
(GLBTQ) youth ages 14-24 in Pierce County.

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Contact Us
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Office
Phone: 253-671-2838
Emergency
Cell Phone:
(253) 988-2108
oasisyouthcenter@gmail.com
myspace.com/oasisyouthcenter
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